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My Wife Agreed To An Open Marriage (I Wish She Didn’t)

My Wife Agreed To An Open Marriage (I Wish She Didn’t)


– Well, hello, everybody! I’m Anthony and I made a huge mistake. You see, I was in an open relationship with my wife. I know it sounds weird, but a couple of years ago, our marriage was falling apart. We were fighting every day over every stupid little thing. She was nagging me all the time and she became less and less attractive. I decided that we needed an adventure and suggested that we open our marriage. She disliked the idea of it, but I explained to her that it will spice up our love life and we will make it work. Finally, she agreed. Right now, I really wish she wouldn’t have. So, we made Fridays a date night. Sometimes I’d go to the bar to meet other women, sometimes I’d spend the night at their place. At first, it was exciting and fun. I started dating pretty attractive women, who would’ve never gone out with me before. It felt amazing. I finally gained the confidence I was lacking. My wife wasn’t feeling so confident at first, but about a month or so into our arrangement, she finally found a date. The thing is, we kind of decided not to tell each other about our new experiences. Just to avoid jealousy or hurting the other. But I saw her bringing home these expensive gifts and I thought – how cool, she found some rich guy, I date the most beautiful ladies, this is going well. Until it started to be a competition. You see, one time I was at my office and my colleagues were laughing in a break room, talking about something. I came in and they went completely silent. It was weird, so I kept asking, what was it and eventually my colleague told me: my wife has been dating my boss Connor for a couple of weeks. I thought – this is crazy. How can she do this to me? I’m a laughing stock at my own work. I went home and started a big fight “Are you crazy? You should’ve told me!” She looked dumbfounded, she told me she had no idea he was my boss and they never really talked about their personal life. She even dared to comment that this whole open marriage thing was my idea, so why am I getting so angry? Sure, I should’ve stopped it then and there, but at the moment I thought, I’m gonna top that. That’ll show her. So, I wrote to her single best friend Lydia and asked her out. She was hesitant at first, but I persuaded her. She knew we were in an open relationship, so she just figured that maybe this will work out fine. We went out that Friday and oh, God, we had so much fun. I saw her in a different light. Somehow, I’ve never looked at her this way before, but when we were sitting at this restaurant, laughing, she seemed beyond beautiful and perfect. I was so into her that we went out a couple more times before it all unraveled. You see, before Lydia, there never was any emotional investment in all of the women I’ve dated. It was pure fun. But this time was different. And it felt different for my wife, too. Any time I would come home from a date with Lydia, I would feel pure resentment for my wife. She never made me laugh, she always was so cold. I couldn’t stop comparing them too. But this one evening changed all of our lives. My wife invited Lydia to our home to have dinner. But as soon as we sat down near the table and started talking, my wife saw how we looked at each other. She stood up, walked out of the room and immediately started packing her stuff. Lydia looked at me confused. Turns out, she thought that my wife knows about our relationship. I’ll admit, I didn’t handle this whole situation properly. I didn’t run after my wife, I was looking at Lydia – this new found love. My wife came back downstairs to our living room and just asked us: “Why?” Her voice was trembling. I sat there silent. Then she made a whole speech about how I pressured her into this whole arrangement. How I’m an evil person because I didn’t really try to work on our marriage and everything I did was to hurt her. Honestly, it sounded like nonsense at the moment. I shrugged, told her I’m sorry and she left for a couple of nights. She filled for divorce a couple of weeks later. And, honestly, those couple of weeks were the most horrible and dreadful of my whole life. Lydia and I went on a couple more dates and I couldn’t understand what I saw in her in the first place. She was loud and she couldn’t stop complaining about everything. We were sitting in a restaurant where my wife and I used to eat and I couldn’t stop thinking about her. What have I done? I paid for dinner, told Lydia I can’t do this anymore, and contacted my wife. But I was too late. She didn’t want to talk to me or see me. In the end, I lost a loyal woman who had gone above and beyond to make me happy. I’m not sure if there’s anything I can do to make it up to her. But I now know I have to take a hard look at myself and work on my issues. I only wish I had understood it sooner.

100 comments found

  1. Anthony was in an open relationship with his wife. In the beginning, it was all exciting and fun. But soon, everything changed for good…

    What do you think about those couples that agree to open up their marriage?
    Discuss in the comments below!

  2. This is what you deserve for being such a jerk! Open relationship and bullshit! Rubbish! She did good that she left you! You are not a real man! You re just an immature playboy! Some men are really stupid

  3. 😂😂😂😂 wow imagine living that long & acting like that. What ever happend to marriage counseling? You're wife was smart lolz

  4. Sure no one has to remind you about the mistake you made.. for your future you’ll know exactly what’s good or wrong. Everyone makes mistakes the important part is you know it & learn from it. She wasn’t the best wife either. She had enjoyed it as much as you did. A loyal wife would’ve never agreed no matter the pressure. She could’ve filed for divorce then. It was a consented open relationship that just ended. I wish you good luck on your future relationships.

  5. 3:54 bitch what you mean he pressured you yo dumbass agreed to this shit and now you wanna talk about pressuring fuck out of here I would’ve told that bitch to go ahead and pack your bags

  6. He deserved it plain and simple. Open Relationships in my opinion are a bad idea to begin with and they should have filed for a divorce in the first place

  7. Wahahaha you idiot…. now that all is lost its the only time you realized what you had… now just cry like the idiot you are or stand up and get yout wife back dumbass

  8. The problem with people is that they assume an open relationship will save the relationship. Open relationships only work when you are so into each other that you inspire each other's loyalty. Look at the swingers community. Most of these people had terrific relationships before they opened it up.

  9. This is a terrible video why would you want to go back to a miserable ugly bag at the end it makes no fuckin sense

  10. i like how he was like haha let’s be open, she was hesitant, when she finally caved he banged a bunch of chicks and she dated one person that happened to be his boss and all the sudden it’s all her fault. kinda sounds like self victimization to me

  11. Their marriage was already falling apart..believe it or not this kinda arrangement works for some couples. And for others it just delays the breakup. Just because its not what you want doesn't mean others have to live by your standards

  12. Got what you deserved dude! You shouldn't have left her.. sucks to sucks. I hope she's still going out with your boss

  13. He is evil. he deserve it to be alone. I would dump a guy that ask me to do that on the spot. Is degrading and unnecessary.

  14. Ima take the guy's side. Sorry everyone. I mean, you dated his boss and didn't stop after finding out. Now that he dates your best friend you start getting all dramatic and shit. That's honestly so annoying. I know as girls we should have each others backs but you agreed in an open relationship. You even dated his boss he told you that but you didn't stop. Now that he dated your best friend you go all divorce and shit? I don't get it.

  15. If you are going to have an open marriage, you DON'T taunt each other's relationships in front of each other. but the best thing is just divorce already!
    I know it's usually cheaper to keep her. But sometimes you just need to know when to cut the cord

  16. An open relationship isn’t always a bad thing as long as you set some ground rules. But that doesn’t mean that you should start an open relationship to try to ‘fix’ your problems. Because that will have an opposite effect. Most people in open relationships don’t do “dates with other people” either, it’s just sex. Before doing anything with someone else you should always speak with your significant other first. Even though you already established that your relationship is open. Some people’s open relationships just mean bringing in a third party. But the key to making an open relationship thrive is honesty and communication.

  17. Open relationships when you are dating is fine but an open marriage……. and also “she kept making me do jobs around the house and she wasn’t that attractive anymore” 🙄

  18. I feel like it isn’t his fault her dated her bff but she dated the boss if she broke up with the boss what would happen then she hadn’t thought it through to

  19. It didn't work out because You and her friend weren't in love. Yall just loved the feeling yall felt. Yall were feeding off your wife. It was the belittling of your wife that felt good. To feed off her. Once she was out of the equation== there was no zest left.

    … That's why people cheat. It sticks it to the person yi ure cheating on. You feel good. You feel some of their energy but without having to put up with them. Just like gossip. You get to dwell on somebody. Pick them apart. But no dealing with them

  20. If you do a lot of wrong things
    It automatically calls for lots of nagging
    It's not the person's fault who is complaining

  21. Men are stupid . They always think that other women r going to be funner it’s only because they don’t live with you and see all ur bad traits men like this are better of staying in the dating stage and never evolve to moving in or marriage they cannot handle it

  22. At the first hint of trouble in paradise I would have been like brave heart FREEDOM!!!!, run brother run don't look back to hell with wasting time others find time to love yourself and appreciate your freedom.

  23. O well Fuck yourself with this Open Shit just fuck yourself and die WHO TF BE IN OPEN RELATIONSHIP??? WTF IS THIS SHIT?? whoever have created this open relationship shit I hope they burn in hell and chokes and dies this shit is hella disgusting ew.. like tf

  24. Man nigga, u went through a bunch of shit more than I did & I'm only 14. Don't worry bro, someday your life will be better. Just ask God for forgiveness if it is a forgivable sin & he'll heal u.

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